Friday, May 31, 2013

An anniversary


 Today, 3 years ago, the boy and I got married, legally, that is. It was such a nice day, such an unexpectedly emotional and happy ceremony. It all took less than half an hour, the judge made the effort to translate, not only for me, but for my family as well. She emphasized how thereafter we were committing to take care of each other. And so we have done. There have been adventures, there have been difficult moments, particularly because we react to stressful situations in different ways: he's the practical, let's-move-forward, what-can-we-do, how-can-we-solve-this kind of person whereas I am a 5-year-old, I cry, I rant, I need to talk things over and over again and I need to understand. Sometimes he doesn't get why insist on trying to analyse things that we know there is no answer for. But we're doing well. We're learning, everyday, how to best support each other. And I look forward to many years of craziness and trips and watching movies on the couch and making each other laugh and living life, together. Hoping, playing. Maybe some dreams do come true. I hope some will.

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  1. 'I am a 5-year-old, I cry, I rant, I need to talk things over and over again and I need to understand.' I'm the same way! If I can't understand I can't move on. Congratulations on your 'anniversary'! You look gorgeous in your wedding dress. Good luck to the years ahead of you!

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    1. Thanks so much ;) And yeah... 5-year old tantrums, you'd think this would have stopped happening to us by now.

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  2. Congratulations! This post made me smile :)

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  3. Congrats Amanda! you look lovely in that photo. Wishing you many years of love and happiness and dreams and fun for you both.

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  4. Congratulations! This is so exciting :)

    Here, here to many more!

    BTW, that dress is fabulous!!!

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    1. Thanks... I looked and looked for a dress (I kind of wanting a crocheted or lacy short dress, which at the time was difficult to find, and then one day after work I found this dress kind of by accident, and it was it).

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  5. Happy anniversary. I hope the coming years are only filled with more happiness for you both.

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  6. Happy anniversary! Here is to many more happy years for you!

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  7. Happy Anniversary! You look very pretty in that picture :) My husband and I are the same, in that we celebrate two 'anniversaries'; our official (legal) marriage day and then our big day.

    May you have many many more years of hoping and playing together!

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    1. Thanks so much, we originally wanted to fit the legal ceremony with the religious one in the same weeks, but as it was not possible we just advanced it a few months. Now it's nice to have two special dates.

      And here's to dreams and hopes coming true :)

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  8. Felicitaciones Amanda!! Nada mas lindo que encontrar el amor de verdad!!!

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  9. Gefeliciteerd! ik ben ook het 5 jaar oude kind haha. Ik hoop dat al jullie dromen uit komen :)

    xx

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  10. Your dress is amazing!! And congratulations, may you have many many more happy years xx

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  11. I'm way late here...but I hope it was a great anniversary! I love your dress :)

    p.s. your anniversary is my Dad's birthday.

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    1. Thanks so much! We really had a great day, lots of stuff happened (started IVF, got Mark's new leased car for work, walked in the city where I first moved in, where Mark grew up, had ice-cream, then dinner... it was real nice).

      Happy belated birthday to your dad!

      And I also love that dress, I found it after I had given up on finding what I wanted (a lace or crochet sheath, 60s style, the kind that you see everywhere these days) and I love how versatile / reusable it is.

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