Showing posts with label Cloth diapers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cloth diapers. Show all posts
Monday, August 18, 2014
An ode to cloth diapers
We have been using our precious Bumgenius Elementals since the end of May, when we were finally able to get them. And we couldn't be happier. They work really, really well. They don't leak, they contain all messes, they are very soft and gentle on baby's skin, they breathe, they are easy to use, they absorb a lot (they can even handle the whole night, at 7 months), they fit well, they are cute... They are everything we hoped they would be (and then some).
The some being that, as I had read, cloth diapers seem to protect babies against diaper rash. I can now say it from personal experience. I had never even seen a diaper rash, and I did not want to search the web for it, because looking for skin conditions on the internet is like jumping in a dark hole of grossness. And what you see can't be unseen. Well, when we were in Switzerland, we used disposable diapers (Pampers!!) for 11 days, as I was not going to always have access to a washing machine. On day 5 of using said diapers (which we used together with a Zinc Oxyde and lanolin ointment), I was shocked to discover what undoubtedly was a nappy rash on baby's bum. I started freaking out, because I did not know how to treat it and I was already using a cream that was supposed to help prevent it. I was also changing her diapers every 3-4 hours, as we normally do, so it's not like she had been sitting in chemicals for long periods of time.
After some research we decided to use Bepanthen (a cream that contains pro-vitamin B5) and, luckily, the rash went away. I also made sure to dry her bum really well and to let her be diaper-free for at least 5-10 minutes every day. It was like magic, the lesions disappeared in 2-3 days, then healed and completely went away.
We are back to using cloth diapers and her bum is soft and healthy again. After such an experience I just had to sing the praises of cloth diapers loud and high. We have only experienced the famous poop blowouts 3 times, and on each and every one of those times we were using disposable diapers. I think this particular issue has to do with design, as the back of disposable diapers tends to be very flat, letting messes run up the back of the diaper.
Do you know any tricks / products to prevent or treat diaper rash?
Wednesday, May 7, 2014
The epic saga of the cloth diapers (and a CottonBabies giveaway)
Alternative titles to this post: do not ever use UPS! Or CottonBabies is the best! Anyhow, last November while I went crazy reading everything about cloth diapers, and after having finally decided what we were going to do I found out that CottonBabies had a pretty nice deal on their BumGenius diapers for CyberMonday. As it happened, my brother and my sister-in-law were visiting the US at the time and they asked us if we needed anything. One of my closest friends happens to live there and so, realizing that we were going to pay EUR 13.5 per diaper, instead of EUR 24 per diaper, the decision was a no-brainer. For the 24 diapers that we wanted we saved a total of 250 EUR . Not a neglectable quantity at all (specially if you consider that with that amount we got the crib, the mattrass, the moses basket and its mattrass). Anyhow, because we ordered our diapers before 14:00 on a Monday, we (well, my friend) was supposed to get them by that Thursday, or Friday, at the latest, considering a worst-case-scenario delay of a day. My brother and SIL were going to be staying in the US until the next Monday, and they were meeting my friend on Sunday, so there was plenty of time. The idea was that my brother and SIL would bring the diapers back to Mexico, and then my mom and dad would bring them to us in February when they came to see our baby. A perfect plan, no?
Well in comes UPS to completely mess up and throw the whole plan to the drain. You see, CottonBabies offers free shipping (within the USA) with every order, and orders placed before 14:00 EST ship the same day. If you want your stuff faster there is an Express option in which orders are guaranteed to arrive within three business days from the date of shipment. This option is fulfilled by UPS 3-day select, in which the delivery is done by the end of the third business day. Well, you know where this is going. First of all, our order did not ship on the Monday we ordered (as it should have because we ordered around 11:00 EST), but on Tuesday. Even so, with the Express shipment the company guaranteed that the diapers would be delivered by Friday, so, no problem. Well, yes problem. UPS simply did not comply with their conditions, blaming there were many orders going around the country because of the Black Friday deals. Fine then, but then, as a company, wouldn't you make sure that the order is still fulfilled within the chosen, guaranteed conditions? As soon as we knew the order did not arrive on Friday, we contacted UPS. After going through a long answering machine and speaking to a computer we finally get to talk to someone, who had no idea where our package was, could not do anything about it, would just say sorry but not fix anything and informed us that the package would be delivered by the end of the day on Monday (which it was, but, by then, my brother and SIL were already on their way back to Mexico). We could not get a refund or any kind of compensation from them, no matter how hard we tried.
Anyhow, deep breaths. How were we going to fix this? After thinking long and hard we decided to ship the diapers to Mexico via UPS standard, instead of normal post, because once a package crosses the border the post can take forever to deliver a simple letter and it is not rare that stuff just simply disappears. (Shipping the diapers to Europe either by USPS or other carrier would have been way more expensive). When you ship from the the U.S. to Mexico, customs clearance by UPS is required, but the cost includes routine customs clearance. The shipment was accepted, and even though this solution meant we were spending 60 USD more than we were planning to, we'd still be saving money in comparison to the price of the diapers in Holland, and the diapers were on its way. I love to track packages, to see all the random places where a box stops on its way to their recipient.
That's how I found out, quite early, that something weird must have happened because at some point the package, although already in Mexico, was on its way back to the shipper. To make a long story short, Mexico did not accept the package. We never got a clear answer on this, no matter how much we pushed the people at customer service, but from reading around it seems that our diapers did not clear customs because all clothing coming from the USA is assumed to be made in China and Mexico recently decided to impose high anti-dumping quotas (which range in 500%) on Chinese Origin goods. (Never mind the fact that BumGenius Elementals are fully made in USA, with local materials.) Within a few days the package was back at my friends' where it had started. And we still did not know how on Earth we were going to get them because we really did not want to pay >100 USD to have them shipped to Europe and then pay taxes over everything. We sent the longest complaint ever to UPS... and after days and days of emailing back and forth, it turned out that although UPS made a mistake in accepting the package from the start (because they act as a broker, they should have known that the shipment was going to be refused due to Mexican regulations), they could not -as a company- do anything about it. Instead they instructed us to process the complaint further at the specific UPS shop from where the parcel was shipped.
My friend went to Mexico in March, but she was not able to bring the diapers with her. An uncle of hers was planning to visit her, and offered to bring the diapers to Mexico, but he ended up cancelling his trip. In the end, it was my friends' kind sister who brought the diapers to my parents, and they sit there, waiting for us.
In the meantime, we did contact Cotton Babies about the whole issue (because if the order had arrived that Thursday in the first place, none of this would ever have happened). We are impressed. They have the nicest, friendliest, kindest staff ever. I did not even have to fight for anything. I did not have to send a million and one emails to get our case escalated to someone with the capacity to make decisions. I simply explained what had happened and how inconvenient it all had been, and they not only immediately refunded us the total amount that we paid for shipping, but they gave us a 20 USD coupon in compensation as well.
So this is where you get rewarded for reading all of this. Since Cotton Babies only ships within the USA, and given how complicated it was to get the diapers to where they should be, I am sharing the full 20 USD with you, by giving the coupon away. Anyone can participate, but be aware that you need a USA address for the delivery (see above). If you are not in the USA, you could always use it for a present. If you want to try cloth diapers, this is a chance to get a diaper and see if you like how they work. But if cloth-diapering is not for you, they sell all kinds of other stuff, from wooden toys, to baby carriers, swaddling blankets, bottles, cups, nursing bras, baby books, shoes, clothing...
All you have to do to enter is leave a comment telling me your first childhood memory or other fun story from back in the day, and fill in your participation in the box below. For an extra entry, you can tweet about the giveaway and fill it in as well. The giveaway will be open until next Wednesday, May 14 at 3:00 P.M Amsterdam time, when I will choose a random winner. I will announce it on Thursday May 15, so be sure to come back and check if you won!
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This is NOT a sponsored post. I am only writing about my experience and I am giving away the coupon I received from CottonBabies as compensation for the whole epic journey that our diapers went through.
Wednesday, March 26, 2014
Cloth diapering: 7 weeks in
Last time I wrote about cloth diapers, we were still undecided as to what we would do (whether to go for disposable diapers or something else) for the first couple of months until she fits her Bumgenius Elementals*. After reading your advice and researching a bit more, we decided to go for the simplest option, that would allow for some versatility as well: prefolds (also known as flats).
We went for 20 cotton prefolds in size small and 4 PUL covers**, all of which are supposed to fit her from 2.5 to 5.5 kg (from 5 to 12 lb). We also got 2 wet-bags (to put the dirty diapers in the diaper bag when going out), 2 mesh-laundry bags (for the diaper pail), 5 rolls of flushable stay-dry liners, 6 Snappis, some neutral-non-enzymatic powder detergent and a nappy bucket.
For now, we are folding the diapers using the origami fold, where most of the absorbancy is in the center all the way from the front to the back. It is quite easy: you fold the diaper in 4, then take a corner and 'pull' it to the other extreme, turn the diaper around and fold the remaining piece in three. Of course you wouldn't understand anything by reading my explanation. Like they say, a picture is worth a thousand words, so here is one:
After we fold the diaper, we lay a flushable-liner square in the center of each diaper and voilà, they are ready to use. I thought folding and prepping the diapers was going to be lots of work, but it actually goes quite fast, it's something we do while watching TV or hanging out in the couch and talking.
As for the washing, it really does turn out that with a baby you are doing laundry all-the-time anyway, so it really isn't more work to throw them to the laundry every day and a half or so. Actually, in our specific case, it would be more work to walk out the house to empty the diaper pail, than it is to walk to the washing machine at the end of the hallway. We have a high-efficiency washing machine, that does not allow a soaking program, so we start with a cold rinse, then we do a hot wash cycle with 2 scoops of powder detergent and after that we put them in the dryer or, when the sun is shining like it has been in The Netherlands this last few days, we hang them in the balcony to air dry. The sun really does miracles. We have had a few stained diapers, but the star-closest-to-us bleaches everything and the diapers end up stark white, disinfected (UV light kills nasty germs) and ready to use. Afer about a month of using them though, even when they looked and smelled clean after washing and drying them, they started to smell really strong of ammonia as soon as she soaked them just a bit, so we stripped them (as advised by cottonbabies): again starting with a cold rinse, followed by a hot wash (90ºC) with a tablespoon of Dawn dishwasher detergent, and finally by a second hot-wash without detergent. It was like magic, they worked as new.
We are really, really happy with our cloth diapers so far. They contain the mess really well (we haven't experienced [yet] the famous, explosive, breastfeeding-poop blowouts) and we've only had leaks a few times, when we accidentally left a bit of fabric sticking out of the diaper cover, or when baby Yu slept really long (4.5 - 5 hrs) and the cotton could not absorb any more.We are still learning, so the times when we have gone out for the whole day we have used disposable diapers. Also, the first 25 days of her life, when she was at the hospital she was on disposable diapers the whole time.
We wash the shells by hand once a day, or occasionally more often, when they are dirty or too moist, but it is quite a fast process. She has not had a diaper rash (cross our fingers), but since we are using the stay-dry flushable liners we are allowed to use creams, and sometimes we use a little bit of white Vaseline on her bum. My mom did use cloth diapers (the terry type) with me and my brother (not my sister) and she says that diaper rash will inevitably happen to babies at one point or another regardless of the diaper (she used both types, disposables on my sis).
We decided to use the biodegradable paper liners that get thrown away in the toilet, as because of the way our toilet is built we could not install a sprayer and we like the principle that the paper lets pass the moisture so that the baby stays a bit drier than if it was sitting directly on its stools.
She is growing fast, so we are figuring out new ways of folding the diapers, and just very recently have started experimenting with the Kite fold, with a small piece of folded-cotton acting as an in-layer. This makes the whole thing quite bulky, so we are hoping to find some alternative folds that will be trimmer.
Does anyone have any advice or experience?
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*Pieces of Anna wrote good overview on her experience using and taking care of the Bumgenius Elementals,
**We got the Rikki diaper covers from Mother-Ease, two in small and two extra-small in the "Oceans", "The Wetlands", "Rainforest" and "Asia" patterns. They work really well and they are super cute, I particularly love the turquoise one as it reminds me of Finding Nemo.
For those of you in The Netherlands, we got all of our diaper supplies at KaatjeKatoen, and we were impressed by the quality of the service. Before making our decision we visited one of their consultants, who are all over the country and provide free advice. She showed us the diapers and explained the different systems. She was also available to answer our questions by email all along. When we finally ordered the diapers got to us really fast (in a matter of three days). When I was researching I found another two shops that sell cloth diapers in Holland: Babybum and Bumaround, with more or less the same pricing. But Babybum was not able to offer advice at the moment we needed them and I only found out about Bumaround weeks after we had already made our decision, through an ad in a pamphlet that came in a goodie box.
Images of the diaper folds via Blueberry diapers.
Monday, January 6, 2014
Thinking of cloth diapers
The last few weeks I have been
I started looking into cloth diapers because I was shocked to hear of the environmental impact of disposable diapers. A disposable diaper can take around 500 years to decompose in the landfills and a single baby contributes around 1 ton of waste in disposable diapers to the landfills (1). That's not even taking into consideration that: "disposable nappies use 3.5 times as much energy, 8 times as much non-regenerable raw materials and 90 times as much renewable material as reusable nappies. They produce 2.3 times as much waste water and 60 times as much solid waste, and require between 4 and 30 times as much land for growing natural materials as reusable nappies." (2)
There are also public health concerns. Taking into account that more than 100 different enteric viruses, including polio and hepatitis (from vaccines) are known to be excreted in human feces and that these viruses can live for months after the stool has passed from the body; and knowing that even when the World Health's Organization advocates for adequate disposal of human excreta (via the sewage system) and product labels instructing consumers to empty the feces into the toilet before disposing of the diaper are not commonly followed: human excreta entering the waste stream via disposable diapers pose potential health risks to sanitation workers and threaten to contaminate groundwater if landfills are not properly constructed. (3)
Then there are health concerns as well. Here, the opinions and research seem inconclusive, but there appears to be unanimity among cloth-diaper users saying that babies who are cloth-diapered are less prone to diaper rash, or (anecdotal) experience of parents associating diaper-rash with disposable diapers when they have temporarily switched from one type to the other. This seems intuitive to me as the super-absorbent chemicals present in disposable diapers would tend to excessively dry the baby's skin, making it more prone to irritation. And because disposable diapers are so good at gelifying, the baby would tend to stay longer periods of time in a soiled diaper. The increased incidence in diaper rash in the last 50 years (from 7% to 78% ) seems to coincide with the massive use of disposable diapers (4). A study published in The British Journal of General Practice (5) found the type of diaper worn as a highly significant possible causal factor for nappy rash in a regression model. The same study found that disposable diapers give little protection against nappy rash and encouraged parents to use cotton diapers, natural fibers being gentler on the skin. Yet another study (6) found that in baby boys, scrotal temperature (a reflection of testicular temperature) is increased in disposable plastic lined nappies. The mean scrotal temperature was significantly higher in all age groups during the periods of plastic nappy use than with cotton nappies (p < 0.001). Because scrotal hypothermia is an important factor for normal spermatogenesis, this increased testicular temperature in early childhood could be an important factor contributing to the decline of male reproductive health observed in recent decades. Further research is needed, though, to establish the impact of increased testicular temperature in infancy on later spermatogenesis. My (humble) knowledge of microbiology leds me to hypothesize that higher temperatures can also have an impact on bacterial growth while the diaper is on (but that's just me speculating). Then there is also the possibility of dioxin exposure. A study (7) (that was however performed in mice) reported that some types of disposable diapers emit mixtures of chemicals that are toxic to the respiratory tract and concludes that disposable diapers should be considered as one of the factors that might cause or exacerbate asthmatic conditions. As a side note, people also report less "blowouts" and explosions when using cloth-diapers, because they are supposedly able to contain the mess inside better.
And finally, there is the economic factor. Over 2 years, the cost of disposable diapers will range from €1200 to €2000 depending on the brand, whereas with cloth diapers, taking into account the initial investment (€350 to €500) for 25 diapers and the costs of water, energy and detergent over 2 years, the total spending would amount to approx. €850, only for 1 kid. If the cloth diapers live up to a second child, the savings would be even greater. If anyone is interested, we made an Excel sheet to calculate all this, so let me know and I'll email it to you. You should be able to introduce your own values and make a comparison according to your specific situation (water / energy / diaper costs). We considered washing the diapers every 1.5 days and line/sun drying them.
Environmentally speaking you could argue that washing the diapers involves a lot of energy (394 kWh) and water (circa 19,142 L) for 2 years, with our machine that uses 0.88 kWh and 43 L per cycle, and that producing the cloth-diapers uses raw materials as well (most worryingly the waterproof polyurethane laminate of which most diaper covers are made). However, we are still comparing 25 cloth-diapers against roughly 5,700 disposable diapers over the whole diapering period. It's difficult to reach a sensible conclusion considering all the factors, and of course every family's situation is particular. We are probably going to try to cloth diaper, but I don't want to seem judgemental of other people's choices. I am not above using other disposable items for convenience, like baby wipes, and, ahem, other products targeted to girls; or using disposable diapers for specific situations (like travel or the first few months), but I guess every bit counts. And we will have to learn through trial and error and (hopefully) make it work. Other family's experiences have been helpful and informative in making our decision, I particularly liked the posts by : "Young House Love", "Becoming Peculiar", "My cheap version of therapy" and more recently "Random Giggles"
Anyhow, as for the next question... which cloth-diapers to choose. There are so many terms involved in cloth-diapering that it gets confusing, but roughly you can choose from:
- prefolds/flats: this is probably what comes to your mind when you think of cloth diapers. It's the diapers that our grandmas' and moms' used. These are squares of cloth (cotton, hemp, bamboo, terry) that you can fold in several ways and attach with safety pins or the more-modern 3-headed artifacts called Snappis. They are used together with a plastic / PUL (polyurethane) cover. They are the most basic in design and one of the cheaper options available, but also involve more work and learning, and you will typically need several sizes of diapers as the baby grows. As the covers can be reused for a full day, provided they don't get soiled, you would potentially save money by investing in less covers.
-fitteds: these are basically a simplified version of the above, that is, they are formed and sewn to look like a diaper (no folding needed), and they come with snaps or velcro, but they are fully made of cloth and they are also to be worn with a waterproof cover. With this type you'd also need to invest in several sizes.
-all-in-ones: as the name says, in this case all you need is the cloth-diaper, as the inner liner is attached to the waterproof cover. This means that the whole diaper gets washed every time (unlike with prefolds or fitteds, where a cover is usually reused during a same day). This system seems the easiest and most convenient, as they basically work like a disposable-diaper (where you would put the diaper on, change it, and then send it right off to the laundry). There are a few variations in this category, like so-called pocket diapers, which as the name says, have an inside-pocket where you can stuff the diaper with liners of different absorbancy depending on the situation.
Then, there are one-size diapers which have several rows of snap-buttons, meaning they "grow" with your baby and can be used from nearly-the beginning to potty training. There are also all kinds of materials to choose from: some synthetic (fleece, microfiber) and others natural (cotton, hemp, bamboo). At some point you'll need to use flushable, biodegradable liners (used between the diaper and the baby's skin, letting moisture pass through to the diaper while preventing solids to soak into the diaper, which are then thrown in the toilet) or "spray" your diapers (that is use a shower-head like device that attaches to the toilet to take the mess away from the diaper and into the toilet after the diaper has been used). There are also intermediate systems (like the one called Flip) which consists of foldable diaper liners of different absorbancy and one-sized covers that grow with your baby.
As for us, preferably we want all-in-one diapers that grow with the baby, as we don't want to have to invest in different sizes of diapers, and we want to basically just throw the dirty diaper in the laundry. We prefer snap closures because they seem to last longer than velcro, and we want a natural material (cotton, bamboo or hemp). I am not convinced with microfiber or other synthetic fabrics, some people love them because they dry faster, some people say they get stinky, others say they can irritate the skin (depending on how sensitive the baby is). We do not want to try pocket diapers because I am lazy and the thought of pre-stuffing the diapers, and then, getting the inlayer full of yuck out for washing was too much... though I read that apparently it all comes out by shaking them, or it happens by itself in the washing machine. I already let the dry laundry hang out for way too long instead of folding our clothes right away (oops), so I don't think I need the extra labor of stuffing the diapers. We are probably going to try with Bumgenius cloth diapers, as they consistently get really high reviews and more importantly (most) people say they do not leak. We also considered 2-in-ones (foldable cloth in-layers with a cover, these names are all so confusing) like the Flip system, but I worry that the inserts would move around or to the sides and that if the cover got dirty it would translate in more work by either having to clean the reusable covers at every diaper change, or in a higher cost, by needing to stock up more covers if we need to wash more than 2 per day. I am also personally not fully comfortable with the thought of reusing waterproof covers without washing them in between. (But maybe these things do not happen, some people really like these systems and they are happy with how they work. Mark really liked this idea because the diapers would dry a lot faster, for sure). Anyhow, all things considered this means we will probably choose the Bumgenius Elementals, as they are one-size, all-in-ones that come with snaps and are made of organic cotton. We will probably also invest in some extra cotton or hemp in-layers to add absorbancy when needed. We saw them in person, and even if a few reviews say the in-layers sometimes bunch up, we hope that by folding them tightly we will make the system work.
Does anyone have any thoughts or experience on any of this?
(2) Disposable Nappies: A Case Study in Waste Prevention, Women's Environmental Network, 2003.
(3) American Public Health Association. Policy 8910. 1/1/1989
(5) Getting to the Bottom of Nappy Rash, Philipp R., Hughes A, Golding J. The British Journal of General Practice, 1997.Br J Gen Pract. 1997 August; 47(421): 493–497.
(6) Scrotal Temperature is Increased in Disposable Plastic Lined Nappies, Partsch C-J, Aukamp M, Sipell W.G. Royal College of Pediatrics and Child Health, 2000. Archives of Disease in Childhood 2000;83:364-368 doi:10.1136/adc.83.4.364
(7) Acute respiratory effects of diaper emissions. Anderson RC, Anderson JH. Archives of Environmental Health. 1999 Sep-Oct;54(5):353-8.
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*This is NOT a sponsored post. I have mentioned certain brands, as after reading extensive reviews online they have seemed the ones that best-fitted our particular criteria, however I am not getting compensated in any way and these are not affiliate links.
* Photo credit: Kim Ronson at Green Mom.
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