tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post3184335607881349405..comments2024-03-18T20:11:44.735+01:00Comments on Poppies and Ice-cream: Wishful thinkingAmandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424374017675047414noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-34734195233598538222016-12-31T04:52:41.824+01:002016-12-31T04:52:41.824+01:00Los tiempos cambian, pasé por aquí. Cambié a usar ...Los tiempos cambian, pasé por aquí. Cambié a usar menos mi laptop y más la del trabajo y de repente, meses después, me doy cuenta de que parte importante de vida estaba esos links que visitaba casi a diario. Vi, que sólo hay cuatro entradas en tu blog este año, las mismas que en el mío. Extraño nuestras pláticas, siempre mejores en lo virtual que en la realidad. Les mandamos un gran abrazo y todo el cariño.I.Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03999787671774546689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-88449796056951279392016-03-07T12:28:46.093+01:002016-03-07T12:28:46.093+01:00It really sucks Amanda. You know what i have been ...It really sucks Amanda. You know what i have been through and it is just terrible. I understand and feel just as you do. There is absolutely nothing that people say that can help you feel better. A friend of mine actually sent me a photo of Jesus asking for a teddy bear and behind him a bigger teddy bear. As if that is why I went through want we went back in december. Another friend told me i was always the one who say everything happens for a purpose. As if i deserved what happened because i know there is a purpose in everything. God is so good but life just happens and for some reason its been twice for us. Ill be praying you get pregnant soon. We will start treatment as well hopefully without going through any bad experiences this time. But im seriously considering on giving up and just keep the one I have. We can talk anytime you like. As i told you on the last bday party we met, im not ready to talk openly like in public of what happen because it still hurts. Less but still hurts, but please my dear friend, dont keep it to yourself and write me on whatsapp or fb or we can arrange to meet somewhere private and just share our feelings. I do hope everything will be ok for both of us and Yu and M will have their siblings soon :*Marcia Cantuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13533968061220787318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-33494289378839898892016-03-07T12:28:35.866+01:002016-03-07T12:28:35.866+01:00It really sucks Amanda. You know what i have been ...It really sucks Amanda. You know what i have been through and it is just terrible. I understand and feel just as you do. There is absolutely nothing that people say that can help you feel better. A friend of mine actually sent me a photo of Jesus asking for a teddy bear and behind him a bigger teddy bear. As if that is why I went through want we went back in december. Another friend told me i was always the one who say everything happens for a purpose. As if i deserved what happened because i know there is a purpose in everything. God is so good but life just happens and for some reason its been twice for us. Ill be praying you get pregnant soon. We will start treatment as well hopefully without going through any bad experiences this time. But im seriously considering on giving up and just keep the one I have. We can talk anytime you like. As i told you on the last bday party we met, im not ready to talk openly like in public of what happen because it still hurts. Less but still hurts, but please my dear friend, dont keep it to yourself and write me on whatsapp or fb or we can arrange to meet somewhere private and just share our feelings. I do hope everything will be ok for both of us and Yu and M will have their siblings soon :*Marcia Cantuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13533968061220787318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-28117055371964621132016-03-01T10:23:30.468+01:002016-03-01T10:23:30.468+01:00Hugs Hayley, thanks so much for always being there...Hugs Hayley, thanks so much for always being there (and you know that we are here for you as well). Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02424374017675047414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-89259741057910313832016-03-01T10:22:49.668+01:002016-03-01T10:22:49.668+01:00Oh Melanie, first of all congratulations! I hope y...Oh Melanie, first of all congratulations! I hope you are feeling well. <br />Thanks for your words, it means a lot. Yulia was also an ICSI baby and though our diagnosis was not clear (unexplained IF) there were indications of male factor, so I think yes we might need treatment again and we are almost ready to go there. <br />Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02424374017675047414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-88711338016829154132016-03-01T10:20:05.174+01:002016-03-01T10:20:05.174+01:00Thank you ! And yes, we are pretty much ready for ...Thank you ! And yes, we are pretty much ready for treatment<br />(the fridge is full of medicine already), we are going to do it after a holiday in Mexico. I heard so many stories of magic babies / pregnancies that happened after IVF that I was hoping that would be us. Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02424374017675047414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-63294497546401856902016-03-01T02:17:33.336+01:002016-03-01T02:17:33.336+01:00So many hugs. I know this feeling well -- it can ...So many hugs. I know this feeling well -- it can come out of nowhere, sometimes, the sudden pain and longing and anger at the way things are for no apparent reason. It's a daily struggle, particularly as Winnie gets closer and closer to 2. You are not alone.WeeHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13276229335017844293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-2516347300285015852016-02-29T17:02:25.745+01:002016-02-29T17:02:25.745+01:00With my husband's diagnosis (CBAVD), IVF with ...With my husband's diagnosis (CBAVD), IVF with ICSI was and is our only way to conceive. I remember fighting so hard and all the emotions of trying for my son, who is now 2.5. I remember the joy we experienced once he was here and I remember the pain of wanting to try just one more time. It's terribly hard when there are so many stories of easy conceptions. We knew that we had to face a $13,000 bill just for a chance. We took the leap this past summer and, surprisingly, found it an easier process than the first go-round. I wanted another child, but knew that we'd be OK even if the test at the end turned up negative. I could go to my grave with no regrets. <br /><br />It did work, by the way, and little brother will be here in about two months. Please don't give up hope. Please do whatever it takes for you to sleep at night. It is not a flaw to want a second child, even if it took a lot to get the first. You're not only allowed one miracle. Melanie Sorrellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13497908525162581322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8368283990536887320.post-2519895029899531622016-02-29T16:02:22.679+01:002016-02-29T16:02:22.679+01:00I'm so sorry you are going through this, I kno...I'm so sorry you are going through this, I know I would definitely feel the same way if I were in your shoes. It's so painful to want to grow your family and not be able to, regarless of if it's your first, second or even third. I really hope your wish comes true soon... are you guys thinking of going back for treatment? We did, because a natural conception is just so out of the cards for us.Gypsy Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026496787029080243noreply@blogger.com